When someone asks you to serve as their agent, giving you power of attorney, you may feel quite honored or flattered at first. But after the weight of that responsibility sinks in, you may (and should) have some serious questions. Having power of attorney over another can be an awesome responsibility and may be too great a burden for just one person. For this reason, an individual may choose to select more than one agent to act in their place should they become incapacitated. But two heads are not always better than one.
What do you do if you are one of these agents and, for whatever reason, you and your co-agent(s) just cannot agree? Worse yet, what if you suspect one of your co-agents is not acting in the best interest of your loved one? Conflicts can arise in your attempts to act as “attorney-in-fact.” ElderLawAnswers.com recently updated a short article on the problem with a list of potential solutions.
- First check the wording of the power of attorney document to see if it sets up a procedure for resolving disputes.
- If the power of attorney does not help, contact an elder law attorney, who can tell if your state’s power of attorney laws offer any guidance. There may be a state statute that deals with disputes.
Your final step may be to file a petition in probate court to let the court decide. The court can arbitrate or, if necessary, find one agent to not be acting in the best interest of the individual in question and so strip them of their power of attorney
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